Workshops & Trainings

"If the path before you is clear,

you are  probably on someone else's."

- C. G. Jung

Upcoming Workshops & Trainings

Covid-19 Update:

All workshops will be fully refunded should they be cancelded due to restrictions around Covid-19

Modern Therapy Approaches for Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Personality disordered patients pose a unique challenge to any therapy and in this category the narcissistic patient is amongst the most difficult to engage. Their demanding interpersonal style often threatens the therapeutic alliance thus endangering the most effective factor in the treatment process. Therefore treatments of these clients often fail. The intention of the workshop is to offer clinicians therapeutic tools to navigate these challenges better by drawing on the wealth of recent developments in treatments of personality disorders (PD) and integrating these advances to the specific pathology of the narcissistic client.

Napier, 15th - 16th October 2020

9 am to 5 pm (both days), Fee: early bird $365 until 14/08/20 then $425 full catering included

Chronic Sexual Abuse: Gentle and Resource- Oriented Treatment Principals of Trauma Therapy

This workshop is aiming to introduce beginning therapists and clinicians to the often complex and intensive challenges with which clients of chronic sexual abuse often present. 

The emotional window of tolerance for these clients is often small and leads to difficulties of engagement, where either therapy remains in sallow waters of supportive elements or becomes overwhelming to the client, that results in the client "regulating" this by often missing appointments or dropping out of treatment.

This workshop aims at providing general treatment principals and techniques to clinicians wanting to work to work ACC clients of chronic sexual abuse.   

Napier, 22nd August 2019

9 am to 5 pm, Fee: early bird $185 until 31/05 then $215 full catering included

Complex Cases: 

Treatment of Chronic and Recurrent Mental Health Problems by Personality Functioning Informed Therapy 

Chronic and recurrent mental health problems are often not just a challenge to the patient but also to the therapist, as these severe conditions frequently defy standard treatment approaches. Many of the Axis I disorders (depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, somatoform disorders, addictions and diffuse psychiatric complaints) have a high risk of becoming chronic conditions that eventually wear out the patient and the treatment providers. Standard CBT treatments that aim at symptom reduction often fail to address the maintaining factors that relate to the intra-psychic dynamics of personality functioning. The workshop addresses this gap by utilizing an integrative approach of evidence-based therapies (ranging from CBASP to Schema Therapy to psychodynamic approaches e.g. TFP, MBT) that focuses on personality functioning as an underlying factor in maintaining chronic mental health disorders. It aims to refine therapists’ conceptualization of these complex cases and to enhance their repertoire of interventions based in a clear understanding of the patients’ pathology.

Napier, 12th - 13th Nov 2020

9 am to 5 pm (both days), Fee: early bird $365 until 12/09 then $425 full catering included

Trauma and Personality Disorder:

Integrative Psychotherapy of Trauma Induced Personality Disorders


For many clients with traumatic experiences the consequences of these reach far beyond the primary symptoms of PTSD, anxiety and affective disorders, as many will have suffered long lasting changes in their personality. Their perception of others is often tainted by paranoid and mistrusting schemata, while their sense of self will be severely negative, ranging from deep convictions of being defective, unlovable to strong feelings of helplessness, inferiority and shame, thus resulting in deeply held internal models of the world that are self-perpetuating and making them prone for chronic and recurrent mental health problems. While many evidence based approaches exist to treat the primary symptoms of trauma the secondary consequences are frequently neglected in treatment (at best) and at worst, are seen as hindrances and distractions to the “real treatment” of the PTSD symptoms. Aim of this workshop is to promote a more holistic approach to trauma that will include the personality pathology of the clients as part of the result of their traumatic experiences.

Napier, 24th and 25th Sep 2020

9 am to 5 pm, Fee: early bird $365 until 23/08/20 then $425 full catering included

Rescuing The Inner Children: Engaging Difficult Traumatic Material and Intrusive Perpetrator Introjects of Chronic Sexual Abuse


Many clients who have suffered chronic early sexual violence are often emotionally flooded by standard trauma exposure, thus this otherwise highly validated technique becomes problematic in their treatment. This has led to an emphasis on stabilizing interventions and resource activation with these clients. While this often leads to significant improvement, it still leaves the client vulnerable to the trauma and associated triggers, which can often be the cause of retraumatization. 

This workshop is aimed at experienced clinicians that seek to expand their work with traumatic stress and the guilt and shame of perpetrator introjects that clients often persistently struggle with. 

The workshop will have a dual focus one presenting a method for working on traumatic material in a gentle manner, one that will not lead to emotional overstimulation: “Rescuing the Inner Children”. The second will be on working with internalized states of the perpetrator - "Intrusive Perpetrator Introjects".  Distinctive features are an imaginative trauma therapy that is based on an ego-states understanding of trauma and dissociative states typical for early sexual traumata. The early sexual abuse is conceptualized as traumatized inner child states, which are targeted in the treatment by imaginatively rescuing these “children”. This helps to overcome the structural dissociation and leads to deeper trauma processing and lasting integration of trauma states into more stable personality functioning.

Wellington, 15th Aug 2020

9 am to 5 pm, Fee: early bird $185 until 30/06/20 then $225 full catering included

Imagination-Based Interventions for Clients of Chronic Sexual Abuse: Hands on Practice Day!

This workshop is geared completely towards "hands on" practice of various imagination based approaches for dealing with traumatic states of clients with a history of sexual abuse. Imagination-based approaches that come from hypnotherapeutic therapy have been shown to be very useful for targeting traumatic stress and helping clients integrate these experiences. 

Focus of this day will be on giving all participants ample time and opportunity to practice various imagination based approaches. This will be done mostly in small group work with participants changing roles, thus allowing one to be on the therapist side but also on the clients side of these interventions, thus gaining a deeper experiential understanding of the interventions.


Aim is to help clinicians feel more at ease with providing imagination based interventions with their clients (ranging from resources activation to targeting traumatic states and resolving perpetrator introjects). 

Auckland 19th October, 2019

9 am to 5 pm, Fee: early bird $185 until 30/06 then $225 full catering included

What Attendes Say

“I went to a workshop run by Tobias, and he brought a wealth of knowledge and experience to bear on a complex topic. If you get the opportunity - go to his workshops!”

— Attendee for Workshop on NPD, 11-12 May 2017


20th Nov 2018 at the AnzaCBT 

Conference in Wellington:

I will present a 1.5h workshop on the subject of "Is there a Place for Self-Disclosure in CBT?"

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